I’m Coach Val—Ya Good Girlfriend™—and I’ve made it my life’s work to help women return to themselves. I didn’t plan this. I didn’t brand it.
I lived it.
There was a season where everything around me looked fine—but inside? I was unraveling. Quietly. Privately. And for too long, I kept showing up like I was okay… while silently breaking.
But somewhere in the middle of pretending and performing, God met me—in stillness. Not in a program, not in a position or role. In the quiet.
And everything began to change.
I’m not here to give you another checklist or convince you to hustle your way into healing. I’m here to help you pause long enough to finally hear the truth. To hold space for what’s been buried. To breathe again.
In The Quiet™ is more than a brand—it’s a permission slip.
To stop pretending.
To stop overfunctioning.
To stop shrinking your pain just because other people are uncomfortable with it.
No fluff. No spiritual performance. Just soul work, truth-telling, and healing that starts on the inside.
The one who holds it all together—even when you’re falling apart.
You’ve mastered pretending you’re fine while slowly disappearing behind the demands of life, love, and responsibility.
You’re tired of giving and giving... but never truly receiving.
You know there’s more to life than this cycle of burnout, betrayal (especially self-betrayal), and survival mode—but you don’t know how to break free.
That’s why I created In The Quiet™: Tell Me Everything.
Because this isn’t just another journal full of surface questions and blank pages.
This is where you stop explaining and start excavating.
This is permission to be honest—with yourself, with God.
About what hurts.
About what healed crooked.
About what you’ve been holding in so long it started to feel normal.
It’s not about fixing yourself.
It’s about finally facing what’s been buried—and giving it language.
Coming this winter…
In The Quiet™: Tell Me Everything
A soul-led journal for the woman who’s done pretending.
This isn’t a place to fix yourself—it’s a place to face yourself.
✨ Honest prompts. ✨ Inner healing. ✨ Space to exhale.
➤ Want to know when it drops?
As a life coach, I specialize in helping individuals who feel stuck, unfulfilled, or overwhelmed rediscover their purpose and create meaningful change. My coaching program is designed to empower you with:
You finally hear what your soul’s been trying to say.
You realize you’re not crazy—you were just overwhelmed, unheard, and spiritually tired.
You stop begging God for a word—and start receiving what He’s been whispering all along.
You lay down the strength act and tell the truth: “I’m not okay.”
You stop needing closure from them... because you’ve started giving it to yourself.
It’s not silence. It’s not self-care.
It’s the space between your pretending and your truth.
The place you finally admit: “I can’t keep doing it like this.”
In The Quiet™, you don’t have to explain.
You don’t have to be strong.
You don’t have to know the right words.
You just get to be—and let the unraveling begin.
You don’t have to run away to a cabin or quit your life.
You just need space—real space—to pause.
To get still enough to hear what’s actually going on inside.
To stop managing everyone else’s needs long enough to feel your own.
In The Quiet™ isn’t about isolation—it’s about intention.
One breath. One honest moment at a time.
That’s how you enter.
You stop bracing yourself.
Not because life got easier—but because you’re no longer carrying it in secret.
You stop pretending to be strong...
and let the truth rise—unfiltered and unperformed.
You stop hiding your heaviness in humor, hustle, or “holiness.”
In The Quiet™, you don’t just remember who you are—
you finally meet the version of you that’s been buried beneath everything you thought you had to be.
And this time… you hold on to her—even when life tries to pull you away.
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